Holistic Counsellor and Psychotherapist.

I teach young people to build extraordinary

relationships for themselves and others.

“Embark on a transformative journey to learn the powerful relational skills to restore and reignite meaningful connections. Other therapies teach you skills. We deal with the part of you that doesn’t want to use them.”

- Terry Real

Relationship Grid Assessment

end the dysfunctional cycles in your relationship

and build meaningful intimate connections..

Firstly understand yourself and your partner. Then you can relate better to yourself and your partner.

Take a free assessment created by The Relational Life Therapy Institute.

See how healthy your self-esteem and your boundaries are during conflict. 

Which of the 4 quadrants you find yourself when triggered?

Learn Powerful Relational Skills

• Relate better to yourself and others

• Uncover your negative automatic reactions

• Restore your sense of worth and boundaries

• Shift from disharmony back to harmony

• Reconnect to your feelings, needs and desires

• Respond in considered thoughtful way

• Dismantle dysfunctional behaviour

• Improve relationships for yourself and others

Result Of Relational Work

• End dysfunctional cycles

• Practice relational mindfulness

• Get what you want

• Manage triggers being calm and considered

• Create healthy fulfilling relationships 

• Resolve problems effectively non-defensively

• Stop generational trauma for everyone

• Build meaningful intimate connections

Kind Words From A Client

“Lucie is a lovely, warm, caring and generous person. She treats clients as her absolute priority and has an infinite amount of time to help and support them with whatever they may need. Young people absolutely gravitate towards her. I always felt completely comfortable opening up with all my thoughts, vulnerabilities and shame. She takes her responsibility for caring for clients with the utmost concern. I would highly recommend Lucie for any position that involves counselling, close care, and nurturing people.”

Elisabeth, United States

“Nothing is more important in our lives than our relationships.  A great relationship boosts your immune system, opens your heart, and keeps you vital and creative.”

- Terry Real

Warm hearted welcome.

Relational Life Therapy Practitioner. Holistic Counsellor and Psychotherapist. 

Relationships are a constant process of harmony, disharmony and repair. 

The more secure, compassionate and safe we are with ourselves the healthier relationships we have with others.

Together we create a space where losing strategies are replaced with winning strategies. Self-esteem and boundaries are kept within the circle of health. 

With relational diagnostics we identify what is not working. “This is what’s getting you in the way to get what you want. This is where you learned the negative dysfunctional patterns”.

Learn about relational mindfulness—manage the part of you who gets triggered, creates chaos and problems for yourself and others.

Connect with your wise adult the calm mature part who is relaxed in the body, flexible, realistic, forgiving and warm.

Practice relational skills. “This is what is working”. 

I can help you to connect with the deepest, best, authentic parts of you. And free you from some of the dysfunctional patterns immaturities.

Come and join it’s no more difficult journey then the one you are on.

What Others Are Saying

“Lucie’s vitality, enthusiasm, warmth, care, curiosity and openness to the other person’s experience was strongly felt and appreciated throughout our time working together. I’ve  no hesitation in recommending her as a consistently empathic counselor and/or psychotherapist with high level skills in listening and reflecting.”

Maria, Suisse

“It has always been our observation that Lucie’s commitment to finding ways to support clients is what drives her to build on her self-development. Thus aiding her personal awareness whilst cultivating her ability and skills in offering therapy to others. Her passion and drive to competently counsel others has always been very evident.”

Anna and Lucas, Sweden

“Lucie is a very kind and empathetic listener. She tunes in to see the many layers of complexity of thoughts and feelings. She is very focused yet easy to share. I like the way she thinks. Zero judgment. She patiently holds the client to work out their own answers. I thoroughly recommend her, she is an incredible compassionate therapist. ”

Chris, New Zealand

A client story shared with permission. 

“I met Lucie in my early twenties. At the time I lived with my parents and had daily disagreements and so my parents sent me to a clinical psychologist to work on my anger issues.

After every session I became angrier and had to speak with Lucie to calm, soothe and educate me. 

Lucie taught me to understand my anger and resentment toward my parents. She never judged me and let me process whatever I was going through.

I learned to develop genuine compassion and empathy toward myself and my parents. 

Next hurdle, my ex-boyfriend and I were fighting a lot. My behaviour was getting worse. I wanted to drop out of university and let him take care of me. Deep down I knew I was replicating my parent’s dynamics.

Lucie expressed concerns about me saying ‘Let’s pause now. Slow down. Identify what is not working and why’.

We spoke intensely for two weeks straight. 

I broke up with my boyfriend and continued my university studies. I never went back to the clinical psychologist but spoke with Lucie a few times a week. I graduated and love my work. 

I started a new beautiful, healthy relationship, but I had another challenge. I was overwhelmed with anxiety and wanted to break up. I was stuck losing myself.

I turned to Lucie, as she is the only person I trust. We spoke intensely (again) to pause and not do any dysfunctional stance till we figure out my healthy stance.

I had to do deep inner work for the next few months. Instead of making it about my boyfriend (who is the most loving and caring young man), I had to turn toward myself to learn about how I contribute to the conflict. I did not like it.

Lucie always holds me with so much love and compassion that I’m able to continue doing this work which I don’t really enjoy but I really like the results. 

Fast forward, I’m now 29 years old and we are getting married soon. I’m able to say yes to a healthy relationship. 

I manage my dysfunctional patterns which no longer served me. I now know how to work with my triggers, thoughts and feelings. I manage my anxiety well and I treat myself and others kindly.

I’ve the courage and confidence to build my own business. I do love my parents and I finally understand their stories and their behaviour.

We’re going to fly Lucie to our wedding and also celebrate my growth and healing. I love you very much Lucie and am always grateful for having you in my life. I will talk with you soon.”

Caroline, Australia