RLT Coaching Program 

Identify what is not working. Where you learned the negative dysfunctional patterns. Learn to manage the part of you who gets triggered, creates chaos, problems for yourself and others.

And practice relational skills “This is what is working”.

Learn The Essential Skills To Transform Your Relationship.

Gain the skills to break the dysfunctional patterns in your relationships, navigate conflict, and build meaningful, intimate connections.

“Other therapies teach you skills. We deal with the part of you that doesn’t want to use them.” - Terry Real

You’re about to learn and practice

lasting change to live the connected, fulfilling life you deserve.

There’s nothing more important in life than our relationships. Science has proven they shape every aspect of our well-being – from our emotional happiness to our physical health. 

Yet, most of us were never taught how to truly make them work. We stumble through, hoping love will be enough – only to find ourselves stuck in the same frustrating patterns, struggling to communicate, often feeling unheard, or disconnected.

The truth is, great relationships don’t just happen. They’re built, moment by moment, through healthy skills and actions. 

Whether you’re in a relationship or single, this is one of the most powerful investments you can make in your future love & happiness.

This RLT Coaching Program is your chance to learn what no one ever taught you: the real, minute-to-minute work that creates lasting connection, trust, and intimacy.

What results to anticipate with RLT Coaching Program?

Significant character changes and relationship transformations.

The program is led by Lucie Moon, RLT practitioner and educator trained by renowned therapist and bestselling author Terry Real – this experience will give you the skills and insights needed to transform the way you relate to yourself and others.

You’ll learn the essential relational skills – a radically effective approach that creates real and lasting change.

Identify and work with these unconscious patterns, so they stop creating chaos and problems for yourself and others. You’ll learn how to show up as the version of yourself that’s capable of real intimacy, trust, and connection.

Because skills alone isn’t enough – we work with the part of you who won’t use them…

Imagine you’ve learned how to communicate openly and compassionately when something upsets you. In theory, you know exactly what to say.

But in the heat of the moment – when emotions are high – do you actually use that skill?

For most of us, the answer is no.

That’s because when conflict arises, we don’t respond from our rational, adult self —we react from our inner Adaptive Child. This is the part of us shaped by past experiences, wired to protect us but also the very thing that blocks deep, healthy connection.

“Intimacy isn’t something you have, it’s something you do. And you can learn to do it better.” — Terry Real

RLT Coaching Program Structure

The 3 or 6 months program focuses on shifts you want to make in one or two major areas of your life – suitable for couples and individuals.

Learn the essential skills to transform your relationship. One on one meetings to help you support your relationship with yourself and others.

After working for some years, Lucie started to work with people in a more short-term, intensive format. The response that she received with this format was overwhelmingly positive. 

For example, some people have come in wanting to not yell at their kids anymore, some have come in wanting to learn self-compassion, wanting to set boundaries at work, and some come in wanting to have connection with others after having spent a ton of time closed off. 

RLT Phase 1: Waking Up The Client

In this first phase, we’re waking up their conscience and clients wise adult. It's akin to waking up from a spell. We directly but compassionately tell clients the truth about the dysfunctional stances they have learned and how they are showing up in their Relationships. “This is what’s getting you in the way to get what you want. This is where you learned the negative dysfunctional patterns”. This is the reconnecting work, the loving confrontation, where all of a sudden somebody says, “Oh my God, this is what I've been doing.”

RLT Phase 2: Family of Origin and Relational Trauma Work

The second phase is deep inner child work, teaching clients to reparent their child parts. This is relational trauma work and it opens people up to developing relational skills. It is only the wise adult part of us that wants to be intimate. It is only the wise adult part of us that wants to use skills. And so we have to deal with the triggering and the flooding that happens with the wounded and adaptive child parts. RLT is not itself a trauma modality. The model is not designed for PTSD or other severe forms of trauma.

We talk about three parts of the psyche

• The wounded child, which is usually conceptualized as the first moments of life up until about age four or five.

• The adaptive child, which is five up to around twenties.

• The wise adult, the mature part of us.

Gabor Maté says, “You don't see the wound, you see the scar.” What did you learn? How did you learn to cope as a small child growing up in that family? And are you still bringing those coping mechanisms into your current relationship?

Phase 3: Teaching Relational Skills

The third phase is education and skill building, learning connection, and teaching relationality. Now the client has learned to tend to their own immature parts, we start to teach them what right looks like in their relationship. “This is what is working”. We teach  the skills to sustain intimacy.

Each person is different, so Lucie tailors the work to your needs, but your sessions will likely include much of the following:

• Relational diagnostics - learn what is not working and why.

• Relational mindfulness - manage the part of you who gets triggered and creates chaos and problems for yourself and others.

• Relational mindset - teaching skills and set up conditions for sustained practice “This is what is working”.

• Losing strategies need to be replaced with winning strategies.

• Self-esteem and boundaries need to be kept within the circle of health.

Copy above is credited to Terry Real

The Relational Life Institute terryreal.com

Reference terryreal.com/rlt-overview-pdf/

Individual RLT Coaching Program FAQ

How many people will take part in the RLT Coaching Program?

Only one, this is a space for your healing.

Will the work happen in person or online?

Lucie offers online sessions.

Is it likely that this will change things that deeply?

That depends on many factors. RLT works deeply if practices are also part of the picture. If you get a good ‘Waking Up” of an old, long term pattern in your brain, and you do the practices that you will co-create to support the shift, you will see change. The people who have reported back to Lucie after working in this way, have reported significant shifting.

I don’t feel like a lot is wrong in my life, I just want to grow. Will the RLT Coaching Program still be helpful?

Many people come to Lucie because they want to have a way of living more authentically and more whole heartedly. No matter the state you are in, this type of work is likely to help.

How much does it cost?

The 3 months RLT Coaching Program is priced CHF 740 total. Number of sessions 3. Session duration 1h 30 min.

The 3 months Intensive RLT Coaching Program is priced CHF 1455 total. Number of sessions 6. Session duration 1h 30 min.

The 6 months RLT Coaching Program is priced CHF 1455 total. Number of sessions 6. Session duration 1h 30 min.

The 6 months Intensive RLT Coaching Program is priced CHF 2860 total. Number of sessions 12. Session duration 1h 30 min.

How can I schedule my RLT Coaching Program?

Fill out the waitlist form below or here. Once you submit the form, you’ll be added to the waitlist. Lucie will contact you to schedule an initial consultation to gather data, understand your concerns, hope and wishes. Together decide on the next steps. And establish mutual safety and trust to work with each other. Price CHF 270. Duration 1h 30 min.

How does the payment work?

One month before the RLT Coaching Program begins, you will be asked to pay the total amount.

Can I sign up for only one or two sessions instead?

Yes. One session is priced CHF 270 total. Session duration 1h 30 min.

Is there anything I can do to prepare for the RLT Coaching Program?

Yes, reading the books from Terry Real will help you understand the RLT model. 

What is the cancellation policy?

Sometimes plans can change so you’re protected by a 100% money-back guarantee until one month prior starting your RLT Coaching Program. Please contact us here one month before your start and we will refund you. Any cancellations after that will not be eligible for refunds.

Please feel free to reach out via contact page if you have a question about the RLT Coaching Program and don’t see your question here.